Have I been making mistakes too long part 9

[tkdmme]

Thanks for all of the feed back.

After thinking this through and reading all of the replies I have come to the conclusion that im not ready for her to come home if she is not willing to work on the R.

Cake eating is an understatement at this point. She is a full blown user and im tired of being used for nothing more than money.

She insinuated the other night that the kids are so well behaved and smart because of her mothering skills. Like I had nothing to do with raising them. Comments like this really upset me and ive been hearing it for years. Yes, she did the lions share of the parenting but I work long hours in a stressful environment in order to give my family the things I didn't have. I looked at my role in the M like a lot of other husbands do. I was and still am the provider and I have done a great job of it. Yes, I could have been a better husband and participated in more in the day to day raising of the kids. I guess I got complacent.