I moved your post the the Newcomers thread. More people should see it in Newcomers and be able to offer you support.
Pat yourself on the back for getting off the pain meds. Good for you!
Sounds like there is a bit of cake eating going on here. She could be reaching out to you to be sure you are a solid plan B if things don't work out with OM.
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