Being there to help v going dark:balance

[Surfer]

AndrewP,

Totally get the 'Ray of sunshine' point. I did this earlier, thinking 'ah she wants to talk to me about her feelings...."piecing" - it must be'.....clearly no it's not.

In terms of the 'Vulnerable'. At times she would suggest I go for a drink...as I had got so resilient to the 'attacks' (I just didn't engage), then with a few beers on board, not too many but a few, she would launch. My guard was down.....oh dear (I have to smile at this - what a fool, I fell for it every time).