Well my exposing the txt's I found had fizzled and had not had the impact that I wanted them too. I did not expect them to 180 my sitch not at all. I very disappointed in mil that she is ok with her granddaughter finding these and with what they said in them. Where is the concern ? The outrage? Seems like I'm the only one who is concerned with the kids wellbeing...I spoke with D 13 at great lengths following this. She is very upset that her mom is in a relationship with a dad of a recent lt bf. ... How will her peers view make fun tease her about this? And on top of that peers also say OM is a drunk and gets drunk... Which he is.

I know I can't control who W goes onto after D or while Sep... But geez this looser? And she says she puts kids first? Really? What about D 13 ? And by the way W selected om boy for her to date and helicoptered over the R like it was her own...

I have been contacted by om future x and she is not happy... Said she had suspicions but no proof.. She is at beach now but wishes to talk in person when she gets back. Perhaps be able to put a few more pieces together .

Currently wife is acting like nothing is wrong... This kinda limbo ..the one a few weeks ago could not take any longer and had to get away...had to sign separation

Don't know exactly what is going on there... But I did tell her I can't legally make her leave the house.. Which I can't.. So here we sit in this limbo... Getting all financial stuff to L to proceed with D ... Guess she waiting for me to do everything..


Me:47 XW 43
D15 D10
Together 17 married 15
Bd : Mother's Day 2015
Sep :July 2015
Divorce final October 2016