[BrightFuture]

Something just came to mind… I always wonder how some thoughts just come out of nowhere… I just realized a great irony about my and H’s text exchange when I was on my work trip, compared to our text exchange 4 years ago…

It was exactly 4 years to date when the pre-BD incident occurred. Here is the short version of my story. H was working in another state (the one he’s been working now too), he was driving to a concert to another city. I was texting him about an upcoming trip with my sister and her family to the vacation home. He was not replying to my texts. I think he did reply to one telling me that he was driving and could not text me… I can’t remember now (need to go back and read my first thread, LOL) if I was checking the phone records on our account at the that exact time to make sure my son’s usage was not exceeding the limit, or I was checking to see if my text messages were getting across to H’s phone… The point is that I saw a lot of texts exchanged with another number at the same time when H was claiming that he could not reply to my texts because he was driving.

I dialed the number and sure enough it was a woman. Needless to say that I got furious and texted H that I knew about his texting (I actually called it “sexting”, LOL), and that it was rude of him not to reply to my texts when he was texting with this other person.

So, next day, when H called me back (after the concert), he told me that this woman was just a friend and that she wanted to go to the concert with him, by could not. Then he gave me a speech. He said that he could no longer live like this (me checking on him and being jealous, blah, blah, blah…), that he was not happy for the past 2 or 3 year, etc… It was my BD day.

So, this year, on this same date, I was at the restaurant with my co-workers/friends, having fun and enjoying my time, when H started his text exchange. I replied (see my previous post), but I really didn’t want to deal with any of H’s business (just like he didn’t want to deal with mine 4 years ago), LOL. I did reply thought. When I got back home two days later, I sent H a text asking him a follow up question about that info he texted me about when I was on a business trip. And here is the interesting part that just occurred to me… He replied right away… And when I asked another question, his reply was “Driving”, and he sent another reply, actually trying to answer my questions. And… he was nice…

So… what a coincidence… He actually wanted to make sure I get his replies right away… Even when he was driving…