I think your h should have sat down and discussed the weekend issue w/you before presenting it to the daughter. Well, it's up to you as to how you want to handle this. Do you want to give up your weekends for something he's scheduled? If so, think about this...is he going to pick her up and drop her back off to your place on your weekends? If not, is he going to pay your gas, etc. for you to bring her to whatever the activity is on your weekends? It sounds like he's doesn't care if your weekends are messed up because he wants to do something w/her every weekend or, was this your daughter's idea and she convinced him that it's something she wants to do and knows that if he presents it to "mom", mom will cave rather than say "no" and look like a mean old mom?
I'm going to wish you an early Happy Birthday. If he doesn't have help the girls to get you something, I wouldn't worry too much. He'll have a birthday coming up soon than later and what is good for the goose and good for the gander. LOL!
Enjoy your special day!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
