I feel like I am constantly making the wrong decision. Everything I do feels wrong.
That means youre probably doing things correctly! When you try ANYTHING new, it FEELS wrong at first. Practice makes perfect. The whole process is counter intuitive.
Originally Posted By: sr9e2d7
Whenever he comes over I vow not to talk about us, and the conversation always ends up there.
It only goes there because you let it. Next time, just end the conversation or say you want to talk about something else. YOU are the only one that is in control of the words that come out of your mouth.
Originally Posted By: sr9e2d7
I feel like he's never telling me the truth, so I don't ask questions but again, the conversation always ends up about us or about me thinking he's lying.
Likely, he's lying. About everything. Believe nothing. Then you dont need to ask questions or push to see if he IS lying or not.
Originally Posted By: sr9e2d7
How do I detach without being a bitch? Whenever I try to act as if, he says "why are you in such a bad mood?"
Get into a good mood. Stop thinking of him as a husband. Stop expecting him to act like your husband. Treat him no differently than you would a houseguest. It's hard, but it's the only way to push forward.
