As it is well documented that MLC'er rewrite history I also think that LBS'ers rewrite history also.
You are so right cadet! At first I thought that my H was rewriting history to make himself feel better about being so horrible to me, but in hindsight I have been too generous and lived in my own world for too long. I'm not saying that his description of events is closer to reality than mine, but his is very negative compared to my dreamland version.
Originally Posted By: Cadet
Later as time moves along and we detach and learn things about MLC we start to see some of the signs that we missed along the way.
That's also spot on. Little signs that I ignored before BD made sense later, and made me realise that I am also at fault here for not facing to the problems sooner.
Originally Posted By: Cadet
So rewritten history is possibly the side that we are not seeing. The side that is viewed from a foggy, obtuse, head. And of course an LBS also can be foggy.
I hadn't considered this before. I thought that my H was in his fog, but I didn't think I have my own little cloud over my head.
"There's nothing sadder than a conman conning himself"
“There is freedom waiting for you, On the breezes of the sky, And you ask "What if I fall?" Oh but my darling, What if you fly?”
