Good question doodler,

At this point I believe she would do what she could to support me while I found a new job. That's the one thing that seems to be different with her from the other WW spouses that I've read about on the board. She has made sure that her responsibilities to the household and to the kids are always taken care of and outside of not being there at bedtime from time to time she has remained present and engagedd with her responsibilities.

That's why it's been difficult for identifying consequences for breaking boundries, becuase outside of texting, phone calls and occaissionally taking off to go see OM (maybe 1-2 times a week), she is doing everything that she would without being a WW.

It's a very unusual situation compared to what I've read about from the others on the board.


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Me:44
W:44
Together 22
Married 21
S 19
D 17, 15, 15. 7
EA/PA suspected 3/30/2016
EA/PA confirmed 4/5/2016
ILYBINILWY 4/5/2016
WW asked for Divorce 5/8/2016 (WW has backtracked)