Thanks for that insight AndrewP. I appreciate the info and definitely plan on speaking with more than one Lawyer. The one I'm starting with is a referral from the Employee Assistance Program I have through work, which means on some level he's been vetted out, but definitely want to find someone who will meet the needs of the situation.
Even if I do go down this path, we're going to have to have a co-habitation agreement for a while. My WW does not have a full time job right now, although she's been looking and had some interviews. Not that her finding a full time job changes anything, but then at least I know she'll be more capable of taking care of herself if we need to sell the new house.
_____________________ Me:44 W:44 Together 22 Married 21 S 19 D 17, 15, 15. 7 EA/PA suspected 3/30/2016 EA/PA confirmed 4/5/2016 ILYBINILWY 4/5/2016 WW asked for Divorce 5/8/2016 (WW has backtracked)