If I knew she was going to leave in 6 months I would not want her to come back. I don't want to put the kids through that again.
If she moves in, what would you say the likelihood of her staying is? 50/50? Are those odds that you want for your kids?
Originally Posted By: tkdmme
She said that she hasn't decided whether to move back in or not.
Why do you automatically say YES? Maybe I want to move in with you...do you get any say in that?
Originally Posted By: tkdmme
My messed up thinking tells me that if we were under the same roof, things might begin to change.
The fact that she is even thinking of coming back leads me to believe that she is re-thinking the D.
Again, this is another reason I think she is reconsidering D. Why else would she be snooping in my stuff?
This is complete mind reading on your part. There are many reasons she could be making these decisions. But I think assuming that if she moves back, she will want to work on M will get you into BIG trouble.
Serious question: what has really changed since she moved out?
