I think this is true, Cadet. I know that as I look back on my marriage and relationship with H, I remember events or things said by him and look at them in a whole new way in light of what I now know. And what I think I know is constantly changing. H is on a journey of self discovery, I'm finding, and so am I. So I find it interesting that I can look back multiple times on something that happened and generate different feelings, questions, or even offshoot memories each time I think about it depending upon my thoughts, emotions, recent interactions with H, or point in my own journey at that point in time.


M-51 H-54
2D-27 and 25
M-26 yrs
Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15
He moved out 10-3-15
D filed 1-27-16
D final 10-27-16

Kindness, kindness, kindness.