I think this is true, Cadet. I know that as I look back on my marriage and relationship with H, I remember events or things said by him and look at them in a whole new way in light of what I now know. And what I think I know is constantly changing. H is on a journey of self discovery, I'm finding, and so am I. So I find it interesting that I can look back multiple times on something that happened and generate different feelings, questions, or even offshoot memories each time I think about it depending upon my thoughts, emotions, recent interactions with H, or point in my own journey at that point in time.
M-51 H-54 2D-27 and 25 M-26 yrs Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15 He moved out 10-3-15 D filed 1-27-16 D final 10-27-16