I am following you as I am going to be going thru this starting in August moving out and on my own. Been there before in a long term relationship years ago living together and it is tough. The quiet....nobody to sit on the couch with and talk about your day...watch a movie. I get it.. I would sometimes have mini panic attacks until I started to GAL more and just keep busy
But your doing awesome with kids activities. I wish I could plan that well!
I get the notion of needing closure and not feeling in limbo. I think thats why my STBX filed pretty quickly out of guilt when she started with he affair that she is denying to the hilt. Hard to put myself in anyones shoes but if you need the D to try to pull a reaction from your WAW versus needing closure I would keep doing what your doing and figure things out.
Best!
_________________________ Me-48 Spouse-WAW 52 Married for 10 years D7 ILYBNILWY 7/15 Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial She files 1/2016 Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....