Waw, she is in love, need advice/support II

[Bear007]

Some choose to emotionally detach via stronger feelings of anger, spite, despair, bitterness, etc. The scars for this approach are deep and somethimes the emotional wounds do not heal and lead to damaging behaviors down the road.

Some choose to heal appropriately through actions that encourage personal growth and betterment. This can be done by seeing professional counsellors, doctors, support groups, as well as seeking out different approaches and information like meditation and spiritual learning.

What approach are you taking?

bit of both I guess, more second approach than the first one but bitterness is hard in me. trying to ride it out and be a better person is not always easy, but it is my chosen path.

Is it normal to lose sight of saving the marriages?
My question here, is do you believe and stand for marriage?

For marriage yes. For WAW... well I had lots of retrospective and I see that I have made lots of compromises in last 11 years. Also a close friend reminded me that I wanted to break up just before pregnancy/marriage.
So marriage yes.
Compromise, yes.
But after I am growing a new set of balls I am not going to have this taken away lightly.