I thought that I would add to this thread some thoughts about re-written history.
As it is well documented that MLC'er rewrite history I also think that LBS'ers rewrite history also.
At the beginning when BD occurs we are all very surprised that this has happened, we could not see it - I think I wrote that a sledgehammer hit me on the head. Later as time moves along and we detach and learn things about MLC we start to see some of the signs that we missed along the way. So are we re-writing history as we observe from a different perspective? Certainly there are always more than one side to every story. You know the right side, the left side and the inside.....
So rewritten history is possibly the side that we are not seeing. The side that is viewed from a foggy, obtuse, head. And of course an LBS also can be foggy. They fail to see things and go through, denial, anger, bargaining, depression. Normally everything that is said by the one in crisis has some grains of truth in it. But those are then spun into an entirely different way of looking at the whole picture.
