Originally Posted By: tkdmme
If them coming home means I have to deal with the w then so be it I think.


I can understand this line of thinking. Of course, they should be the highest priority. A few things to think about:

1) which is more important for your kids: where they are living or their parents' wellbeing?

2) If you knew W was going to move back out in 6 months, would you still want her and the kids to move in?

3) You said this on 5/31: Im done enabling her in the hopes that she may eventually come out of the fog. Do you not see this as enabling her?