I had a good weekend with us all doing things as a family. Wife was annoyed this morning, and said the same things, "I can't wait till this family trip is over,(we have not had it yet), then I can leave, and get my own bank account. I said why do you always revert to saying these hurtful things when you are irritated,she responded by saying she is not reverting, that's how she feels and she is only just getting along with me and not trying to work things out. I feel like I get false hope,but as she went to work, I am sitting here,and understand this is how she feels, and it doesn't have to make me feel good. I may not like it,but I'm just trying to understand, cause this is pretty painful, when you care for someone who says they don't feel the same for you.
My problem is that when I see that things look good from my perception, it's so easy for her to shut off her emotions.
