Oh my goodness Phoebe - that's quite a development! Well, looks like things have gone south there for him. I have been following your sitch but I couldn't recall that your H was lying to OW. Was she not aware that he was M, or was there something else?

You sound even and grounded in any case, which is the main thing. When I read about OW and social media, I hate that whole thing of 'outing' someone online and wearing your heart on your sleeve - ugh. Though I empathise with her if she has been lied to.

Take care and keep moving forward - you're doing well xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus