Looks like the conversation will happen before our holidays... H said he found a new apartment to rent, would like to sign before holidays. A lease for 1 year. Told me details about the flat & several times repeated that he needs a place to stay & needs to secure it now. I asked him if he was sure he wants that one because it's expensive & not furnished etc. He again repeated that he needs a place to stay etc. So I started to wonder if it was his way to make me offer him to live in our house until he finds something more appropriate. He told me once that after I kicked him out I cannot expect him to beg me to let him come back home. I see that he is much more talkative & emotional with the kids, maybe he misses them & knows that the only way to get close to them again is to live with them. Our house is big enough to have privacy if living under the same roof while separated. But I don't know if I'd manage. I admire HaWho! I got used to him not living with us. So, not sure what to do. Make the offer to come back home until he finds something better & let him decide. Or just let him rent this one, which will have big impact on our finances. He said he will not sign before I come back from my weekend. And asked we discuss when I'm back. I'm now sitting at the airport waiting for my flight back & really don't feel like having that conversation. I find it weird. If he didn't want to come back home he'd just sign the lease & would inform me afterwards. Just like he did 6 months ago with the one he is renting now. He wouldn't make me part of that decision. I asked him if when thinking of options how to share kids I need to take into consideration that someone will live with him, he said no. I need to sleep on it...
