Well, this weekend (not sure of the exact date) marks the two year anniversary of BD. There had been a BD1 a few months earlier, but this was the big one. In truth, whilst I knew it was here, I haven't thought of it much and have had a nice weekend. Last night, I took my Dad on our annual pilgrimage to an opera festival and today I have been doing some clearing out and sorting ready for my move.
I have come a long way in two years - moved out, rented a flat, got a new job, took up many new activities, made new friends, divorced, resolved our finances, stayed in touch with my stepson, learned a lot, grew and did some healing. In a way, it has been the best (and the worst) two years ever.
I'm looking forward to being settled in my new place now and just keeping everything crossed that things run smoothly. Minimal contact with XH and all business. Sent a little (non-work) message to NG about something this week and he texted back to say his day just got a lot better hearing from me Just taking things steady there really - but it's enjoyable to feel someone may like you - particularly having spent (a lot - probably far too much) time grieving for an XH who is all into someone else!!
I also went out with a divorce group friend last week - she and I had a nice dinner and a chat. This week is salsa, rounders, yoga and ladies social group - my next night in after tonight is Friday I think.
Not much else to report, but life is pretty good and getting better all the time for me - hope everyone else had a good weekend. Xx
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
Just taking things steady there really - but it's enjoyable to feel someone may like you - particularly having spent (a lot - probably far too much) time grieving for an XH who is all into someone else!!