You see, I'm wondering how much the sex starved marriage stuff has played a role... isn't it only logical to initiate repairs in the bedroom?
He may say no and it will also tell me a bit more of what's true for him.

Col
Me 53
H 48
MLC and pa two years two years ago
WH alcoholic and dry for 14 months
S 18
D 16
M 22 years
Together 24
D threatened by WH in June, nothing since
He left mbr 06/25

Last edited by Cadet; 07/10/16 12:43 PM. Reason: merged posts

Me54 WH48
S18 D16
M 22 T 24
EA-PA-EA 2011-2015
Separated 10/14 - 06/15
BD1 02/14
BD2 05/16
BD3 08/21/16 and began drinking again
Working on me and liking me again