Where am I now

[twinmom]

Mia, you need to get the financials sorted through the court. Unfortunately telling him how to spend $$$$$ isn't going to be productive in any way. Once the court decides how much he is to pay in support & what martial property he is entitled to than he can do whatever he wants with whatever $$ is left. It may be the stupidest thing ever to vacation in France BUT that is not your decision to make anymore.

His actions are his actions and you can't control what he does. You CAN and SHOULD seek legal advice and sort out the financial & visitation aspects. Unfortunately as awful as it is taking the kids to France with or without OW isn't your choice.