Things have taken a turn

I didn't go to the bbq but instead went out with a freind.

When I got home my wife was already home, she was actin very surly and giving insults out etc.

Ever since this she has been really off, saying that she doesn't want to get on with me and just wants me out the house, she thinks I'm pathetic, she can't stand looking at me and I make her skin crawl.

She's given up on doing things as a family as I've not been receptive to it, but she says it as though I'm being difficult.

We are not talking at all now and she doesn't want to speak to me in any way