Sandhi, what do you think at this stage if i be more assertive, flirty, alpha male, pursue? past few weeks i've been trying to give her some space.
Would you know when to be assertive? Can you picture yourself being assertive? Do you know what you would do with her resistance or strong opposition?
Flirty? Certainly nothing sexual. Not knowing your style of flirting or exactly how you mean this, it's hard to say go for it. The time doesn't seem right to me, since she wants to leave you. Maybe you can explain more to me.
Pursue.........certainly not! Why would you?
Alpha male? Sure! If you can handle it. If you really understand how. Have you googled these subjects?
My suggestion is to focus on the things I previously listed. What makes me nervous is why you would insert the flirting and pursuing. Most W's like flirting, but not when she's deciding to stay or leave him. Timing is everything!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
