OK Seattle, how do you think you screwed things up with W during your time together? My guess is you didn't. Watching and questions on her part show she is thinking things she's not sharing, IMHO.
Quote: The FACT is, all of the reasons she has given me are no longer valid, as I know yours is as well. They are no longer reasons to me, they are EXCUSES that are a moving target. No matter what I try to do to address them, she finds another one. It is like swimming in the ocean trying to catch a fish with your bare hands. I have been trying to save this marriage for the both of us, deep in my heart I know she really has doubts and is scared to try again.
I can completely relate to this. It's exactly how I feel too!
Well, if you haven't been doing things for you, now is the time to get back on that wagon.
Sounds like an insightful discussion with the DR crowd. Too bad I missed it.
I liked your story about the nurses... that really is good for the ole PMA. Had a similar incident this week myself, and it does make you remember that our Ss seem to be the only ones not noticing right now how great we are!
