It sounds like yesterday was a good day! I like the playfulness that's coming through in some of what you do now - it sounds like you are enjoying life, and that's such progress!
Did you get through a lot of cherries?
Are you going to make any steps to take control over the D process - so you can establish jurisdiction?
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17