I'm not sure what you are referring to, but this is all I remember saying about it.
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Quote: I come home, and send her a text. I apologize saying I'm working hard on my own stuff, admit that that name triggers my anger and validate that it probably does look crazy to her. Done.
I want to make a suggestion, and I hope you will consider making it new behavior change. I think you should break yourself from texting her and bring up the subject that you just had with her. You could have apologized when the two of you were on the phone earlier. To return to the subject again.......plus you persuing by initiating a text regarding something personal between the two of you.......sets you back a little bit. It shows her things you should not reveal at this time. Mainly, it tells her you are still hooked, and it appears that you are seeking a response from her. So, please break yourself from this action.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!