Have i been making mistakes too long part 8

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I don't know. I'm in a different place emotionally that I was when we were living together before. I just think if we were under the same roof she might see the improvements I've made and be willing to work on the m. And I see her moving back as an attempt to work on the m whether she admits it or not.

I don't know the whole of what you have going on, I'll just throw in my experience. I'm 7 weeks in now. I've finally seen the light, that separation has given me the space I need to work on myself. And even though it's hard to believe what she says, she has mentioned numerous times she's trying to work on herself as well. (It will only be baby steps until OP is sent back to the dumpster he came from though.)

That said, your W wanting to move back in is likely selfishly motivated. She's not going to see anything positive about you until she starts coming out of her fog, and when she does you'll know. She'll start turning back into the person you know, inch by inch. It's a slow process from start to end though, so working on the M is not really an option until SHE decides she cares enough. If you bring it up, you'll be disappointed. I've been there!!