My little slice of Life 2

[Coconut]

Well, if your L said its ok to let her know you have evidence of the A and that's what you want to do, then do it.

I would stay calm, no need to be mean, but I would be firm. I would tell her that the marital bedroom is for those in the M, you will be moving into it and she lost the right to sleep in it when she started seeing someone else.

Did your L say agreeing to a dating clause would effect your having to pay support at all, or does it matter since your agreeing to it after she started seeing someone?

I am really sorry to hear what you are dealing with, it is the worst thing a S can do. Be strong for you and your D.