Do you find that there are men out there who are ok with friendship and nothing more? I always imagined that they would only want to be friends if there was some sort of potential for intimacy. i wonder if I would want intimacy with someone that really should be just in the friend category simply because I am so intimacy starved. I haven't actually joined any groups yet. I think I have always been comfortable with independent pursuits, but realize I need to do that to expand my social circle.m