Have i been making mistakes too long part 8

[Coconut]

I don't know. I'm in a different place emotionally that I was when we were living together before. I just think if we were under the same roof she might see the improvements I've made and be willing to work on the m. And I see her moving back as an attempt to work on the m whether she admits it or not.

Tkdmme, I think the problem is outlined in what you've written in the last 2 pages. You went to the family bbq that she invited you to (I think you were expecting her to act like a couple) you said she ignored you and then said every time you start to detach she reels you back in.

Then you wrote what I quoted above. Your expecting her to want to work on M even though she said no. So what is going to happen to your emotional state when your expectation of her working on M doesn't pan out? Your going to be miserable. Do you want her to move back in if she does NOT want to work on M?