They same things were said to me about the house and for want of better blah blah blah
Realise it's a list of excuses to justify their actions the reality that you can't fix it all you can do right now is remain calm upbeat and focus on your behaviour
My story is different she has told me that a lot of stuff said was to hurt me and push me away, to make it easier to leave take it all in but don't let it wear you down keep posting it helps as a journal and to track progress I'm a lot stronger wiser and detached then I was a year ago
Cheers Brad
Me: 45 w:45
M:6yrs T:9 Separated aug 15 no contact dec 15 come back july 16 I filed for closure aug 16