Just remember if you do decide to take the BIL out. Make it look like an accident. Its a family event you'd have plenty of alibis wink

Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs
23Mar16-BD
9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss.
27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM.
14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation.
24May17-Divorced.