Thank you again for responding Job. Its funny you mention him being sick and feeling aches and pains because the first thing he asked me when he walked in the door was "Have you been having back aches?", and mentioned he was sick a few days ago. And I actually have been extremely bad back aches lately, especially the last few days.
He didn't even take his mail, mail that he opened and asked me about. Didn't look around to see what he needed to take, nothing. He may just do what he did when he actually moved and come when I'm not around. I know, boundaries but I dont know if I can stomach being there when he does that. I'm just sick of this. God, I just want to fight for this. And all I can do is tap out because Im being forced to.
"Be messy and complicated and afraid and show up anyways."
