Man lt we share some things in sitch... Mine is in overdrive... Haven't read all of yours but with WW you might as well consider them gone...even I they are in same house (cake eatin)or getting the boot like mine ... Their mind is already made up ...so the faster you can come to grips with that the more sanely you can progress with or without her. I think of it this way .. Just cause she's your wife entitles her to no more than any other woman you've dated or been married , engaged ect too... Just cause she wears a ring doesn't allow her to show disrespect and deceive you. Yes I did let some of this occur and that I take resp. for. But d@mn there is only so much damage that can be done before you just have to ask is it worth it? ... In my case no .. Not for her now...
Me:47 XW 43 D15 D10 Together 17 married 15 Bd : Mother's Day 2015 Sep :July 2015 Divorce final October 2016