That's it for now. I would continue moving forward, work on yourself, keep the focus on you and your family. Do not raise the subject of divorce and don't bring up relationship talks for now. The more you do this, the more he'll push for a divorce just to keep the pressure off of himself. If he talks about the divorce, say "h, I'm sorry you feel that way and I won't stand in your way to file, but it's not how I feel about our situation". Leave it at that and go on about your business.
As for seeing a counselor, priest or talking to family...he's not going to do it. Don't bring it up again. Why? Because he doesn't think that there is anything wrong w/him and it's the marriage and relationship w/you. He don't want people trying to convince him otherwise...even though this is all about him and his unresolved childhood issues. It's not you...it's him that has the problem.
Keep moving forward.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
