GBD, thanks for your comments, I agree her leaving would be ideal, but not where I'm at. I will certainly keep my eyes open, and we've already discussed her not interacting and telling me whenever any contact is made.
So funny story. W and S were out of the house yesterday, my mom and nieces came over to swim in evening, after the left I got undressed to put my hating suit in wash, and laid down on the couch before getting dressed and accidentally fell asleep. When W and son came home I was sleeping on couch naked and my S freaked out...
When I was growing up, we showered after gym in school, we changed in locker rooms, and we often showered in public restrooms after beach, but that's not the norm for kids anymore... He's never really been around other naked guys so I think he's traumatized... Lol
As for sitch, everything is going well, nothing to report.. She did get a kick from sons reaction last night.
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized