I didn't see it at the time but my W really took advantage of me and I was the typical 'nice guy' that let her do it.
I used to do most of the housework, all the clothes washing/ironing, the food shopping and get up with the kids most mornings. I used to stay at home with the children while my W went to friends houses or went out for drinks 3-4 nights a week.
I was a complete doormat because in my head I thought "happy wife, happy life".....Didn't get me very far
