We have that agreement now, this was something that happened before this but I only just found out about.
I have also found that is likely I can do nothing about it, if the children are with her she can decide who can look after them regardless of my thoughts. That can work vice versa but it's not something I would do to my kids. I will have to confirm with my L and all I asked her for was an explanation and now I'm getting emails suggesting I can bring up this with her L... Received a 2nd email at 1am that she wants answers about the house by next week if I'm selling or buying her out. That I changed the locks with discussing it with her, I did this legally as soon as she moved out.
The last 2 emails felt more like an attempt to gain control and manipulate me and the situation. I'm going to take some time to evaluate and don't really feel the need to respond as it was more threatening than civil.
I guess I can just make sure my kids are secure and protected when I have them at home.
