Hi,

Ok, so she came home at 11 last night, I was on the couch. she came in and sat down. she then tried to start conversations, I gave short answers, not rude or stroppy but wasn't fully engaging in conversation and giving just the basic answers.

she sat there for a few minutes, then said, "well im going to bed then" in a rather stroppy voice then stormed out the room and stamped her way upstairs to bed.

the next morning she came down and was starting to moan about jobs around the house, DIY stuff. saying that she would get her brothers to do it as im not, and that I cant live there if im not contributing, with things around the house.

she then said that she was going to get a mortgage next week, but noithing is arranged at this moment in time

it was only a few weeks ago I built a summerhouse and huge decking area, but that's forgotten about now.

ive also found out that shes telling people we have "consciously uncoupled", I googled it, what a load of BS