Some days are better than others

[EDF]

Tonight on her own WW brought up the topic of breaking contact with OM again. WW is offering full NC, but says she wants to deliver the message in person.

I don't think that's a good idea, but how to respond? I can't force her to do what I want. I don't want to give it as an ultimatum. If she insists on doing it in person, do I completely ignore it and not count it as being "real" NC until she e.g. does an email that I help write? Or do I accept it as a tentative partial step forward understanding that true reconciliation will be a many-month or many-year process?