It's sad but many of the WAW exhibit the same behaviors and traits (as well as WAH)
Denial in many of any affair ...then they cast the guilt back onto the other spouse by pointing out how bad things were and they had zero to do with any of the marital issues. As Aerosmith song goes..."same old song and dance my friend"
And to top it off, many also blame the other for not carrying the load in the house if they are in the bad situation you are of being in the same house for the separation. I have been there for all of the above for the past 6 months.
Hang in there. Keep Gal'ing and doing what you need to in order to power through this.
_________________________ Me-48 Spouse-WAW 52 Married for 10 years D7 ILYBNILWY 7/15 Suspect EA/PA 12/15 No confirmation/denial She files 1/2016 Working towards the Big D ...still in progress....