Hi Bigybiz,

First time posting on your thread.

Hope you don't think I am being too forward.

I agree with Wonka on this one.

Looks like an attempt at point scoring. The above just comes across as the actions of a bitter man. Not the actions of loving father. Which I have no doubt your are, or why would you be here.

Sometimes our ego tells us it is the right thing to do, but really it's just our ego blowing off steam.

If I had been your W, I would have called you out on it too.

Kids are in the middle of this by shear misfortune. No need to put them there and highlight it if you don't have to.

Children do appreciate truth and reality, at the appropriate times and for the biggies.

Save your truth telling for the stuff that really matters.

And sometimes reality su*ks already no reason to belabour the point.

I'm glad your son is no worse for wear.

Hope things in your situation improve, this is hard stuff.

I wish you and your family only good things.

Jellyb