Quote: This no fail attitude plus "detachment" from the things our S's DO and the things they SAY- not "detaching" from the R is the sweet spot of DB.
This is so key.
Seattle, crazymaking (of which I think you've saved me from more than once), is a way our minds try to sow doubt. When the time comes--whether she reaches out to you or you decide its a good time to contact her--I feel you will be able to present a much happier and more confident self if you follow Rj2's advice
Quote: Suppose I'm now gaining the rep as the DB cheerleader!
