I did have a fairly lengthy conversation with my W this evening. No R talk, just trying to sort out this mess that we're in with my SIL.

Everything was very amicable and we both said our piece. She told me about Australia and said it was something she was thinking about but not for a few years yet. I took the opportunity to calmly tell her that I wouldn't support the move and that I wouldn't be willing to let her take my D to live on the other side of the planet.