So W sent an email tonight suggesting that if I felt she was being irresponsible in her care of the kids that I could take it up with her lawyer.
I answered that that was and interesting suggestion and thank you for the contact details.
She said she had not deviated from our agreement but unfortunatly I did have to point out that she did as I was not notified first and give the the opportunity to have my kids on a night she had something to do as per her written email. Tried to tell me I was dictating how she looked after the kids in her care. I did suggest they were not in her care as she was not present but asked if she could explain how she felt I was dictating.
I only raised the first concern as my kids told me they were nervous and frightened about being left with a man they did not know.
Oh what fun this is... Wonder what tomorrow will bring