No shooting from the hip or mouth. So I think STFU about SIL and any other squabbles. Take the High Road, be a gent but be the master of your emotions.
Seriously, this.
You arent going to win a war of words with your SIL when it comes to your W. You HAVE been talking to her family about her....who knows what was exaggerated in your SIL's mind or words or in how your W understood them.
Time to stop with this kind of attitude:
Originally Posted By: KyleR
I am not going to allow lies to be said about me and told her EVERYTHING! Every little thing her SIL has ever told me since BD.
What you perceive as "lies" and "truth" are subjective. And you wont change your W's mind with words.