My wife walked out 3

[Coconut]

RSG, the calls are not pursuit, they are about control. Remember, it's not about avoiding at all cost, it's about not caring if you talk to her or not. If she's calling at times that you don't want her to, tell her not to call during those times (like at work). If your busy, you can answer the call, tell her your busy and either that you will call back later or she can call you back later.

When you talk, keep it short, end conversation as soon as you can, hang up first, move on with your day.

Personally, I have a feeling you like the fact that she is calling you, you enjoy seeing that number pop up on your cell, and I think that is what she is counting on. Your a good plan B in her eyes, that's what she's doing.