You could ask her to leave and see what happens, but probably the best advice is to see a lawyer before you do anything.
I have doodler , the only problem is she has no where to go that she can take kids as far as I know other than om house. Which would expose A rumors and tarnish her rep . I know I shouldn't worry about her it's the D's that I worry about. The lawyer prepared agreement will take at least a week then she'll have to review it sing it ect... I could ask her to leave as start of our sep. but don't know if she'll go... This has been s problem for me ... Not wanting to upset the apple cart and keep everyone happy.. The L asked ... Well what do you want to happen? ... I said I want her out NOW
Me:47 XW 43 D15 D10 Together 17 married 15 Bd : Mother's Day 2015 Sep :July 2015 Divorce final October 2016