What if there is a chance, however slim? or is it my mindset I need to adjust to saying theres no chance?
Heres the thing... There is ALWAYS a chance --- until you dont want to wait anymore. That said, it could take weeks, months, years. Your W could go through 0, 1, 5, 10, or 100 other men before deciding that it's you that she wants. There is no way to predict that at this moment.
The only thing you can do is to improve yourself so that if she and you decide to try again, it will be successful.
Think of it this way: Imagine you are walking through an unexplored path in the woods. You come to a fork and you and W will go on the two different paths. This is BD. Now, it's time to start moving. You and W have no clue where the paths will go. All you can do is start walking. You cant control how fast or slow she goes or whether she even stays on the path. You cant know ahead of time if the paths cross.
So yes, you might come to a place where they intersect. But if she isn't there when you get there, then what? Will you spend your life waiting for her? What if she already passed the intersection? What if there was another fork and she went a different way?
There is only one thing I can say with 100% certainty. If you stand at the original fork, you have no chance at meeting up with her again. So it is time to start walking.
